Pillow talk

I need a new pillow. I even dreamt about getting a new pillow last night. 

I am getting a tmj problem, first in thirty years and I think my bad pillow is causing all sorts of alignment problems and various pains from my head to my knees. I'm not sleeping that well between the aches and the apnea, walking around tired.

I am a side sleeper. I like a firm pillow on the bottom and a soft down pillow I can squish and scrunch to mold and put under my neck.

So I started looking online.  Down pillow prices range from thirty five dollars and up as far as you want to go.

I think I have found one on amazon I like and then I read the bad reviews first and then usually high tail it to the next offering.

My favorite hotel pillow and mattress is the Westin brand.

These pillows, even with a 40% discount, are really expensive. But then you read the reviews and they say that they are nothing like the ones at the hotel, not nearly as comfy.

Lena likes the Ralph Lauren soft, says that they sometimes go on sale at Macy's. I don't think I can wait that long.

Anybody out there that can recommend a really good pillow brand in feather and down?  I would prefer to stay away from the acrylic poly fills.